Gender

What makes a man? Is it who I biologically am or is it who I plan on becoming. there can be many debates about this topic, but I believe that I am a man for who I am trying to be not for who I already am....does that make any sense? I believe that male and females have distinct things they do according to what they do or how they do things. For example men like to play sports and be all tough. Women like to be feminine and sweet. So both genders take on different roles in society. If a female takes on activities that men do or acts like a guy she is considered a "tomboy". If a male takes on things that females like to do, they are considered as soft or gay. People should not be judged for how they act or how they present themselves, but they should be judged on how they want to be. For example, if there is a guy who wants to be gay then he should be gay. so basically, what makes people who they are.....are the things they want to be. i believe that I am a man for what i am trying to do. I am trying to have a wife and have a successful business career. I am trying to go to the gym and get strong like men do. The actions that an individual do in their lives supports the fact that they are either female or male.